" Our lives demonstrate what truly matters to us, and our life never lies. What we value the most is what our life will reveal." James K. McPartland
We do what is important to us. We do not do what is not important to us. A way of seeing is also a way of not seeing. You are what you are, you are where you are, and you are who you are because of what you believe about yourself.
You may find yourself resisting your own commitments, blaming others, and not creating what you know you can be. It is important to remember that you can give up anything that does not serve you.
There are no obstacles, there are merely conditions of the game.
Keep this in mind - it's just a game.